More than 15 years of CASA* research on teens and substance abuse finds that a child who gets through age 21 without smoking, using illegal drugs or abusing alcohol is virtually certain never to do so and that the greatest influence on teens is parents. Over those years, from thousands of emails, letters and calls from concerned parents like you, we've become convinced that you do not appreciate the power you have to raise healthy, drug free kids and how best to exercise that power. So we're writing a new book, Parent Power, to help you.

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Despite the fact that alcohol and other drugs are readily available to teenagers, parents do have the power to raise drug free kids. We want Parent Power to address the questions, concerns and real life situations you parents and your teens face everyday.

According to CASA’s annual National Survey of American Attitudes on Substance Abuse, more than two out of five teens surveyed can buy marijuana within a day.

If you found alcohol or marijuana or cigarettes in your child’s room, what did you do?

Comments:

  1. Steven writes:

    I would talk directly with my child. I would confiscate the contraband and, after discussion, ask the child to destroy it.

  2. Julie writes:

    We confronted him and the person who supplied the alcohol. Talked about the impacts of using alcohol. Talked about the impacts of supplying alcohol to a minor. Grounded him and are keeping a close eye on him.

  3. Terry writes:

    We destroyed it and waited for them to ask about it and told them what we had done.

  4. liz kirk writes:

    My child now 17 has been using illegal drugs and drinking since he was 11. Nothing we have done has stopped his behavior. He has been talked to, grounded, had treatment, and everyting else I can think of. He is now stealing from us and continuing to use. He is a very poor influence on his younger brothers. I’m waiting until he is 18 in a month to kick him out of the house. What else can I do?

  5. karen writes:

    I would have a heart to heart talk with him. I would also spend more time with him, show him that I love him more than his peers do.

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    karen

    Suffering from an addiction. This website has a lot of great resources and treatment centers. http://www.treatmentcenters.org

  6. justinmark writes:

    Addiction is up to individuals self control since human beings have sixth sence to think they should learn conrole their feelings

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    Problem With Drugs or Alcohol? This Drug Rehab has Helped Thousands of Individuals to Recover.

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  7. jane doe writes:

    i believe the best thing here is to confront the kid so get to know if they actually have a problem or its just currently an experiment!
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    jane doe
    Drug Alcohol Rehab
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  8. Drug Rehab Treatment Center writes:

    Many signs of Drug Addiction can be seen, now a day, in our modern society. Cocaine is affecting people very harmfully by destroying central nervous system stimulant. On the other hand heroin is also highly additive stimulant drug and also harms brain of the addicts.
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  9. Alcohol Rehabilitation writes:

    Firstly I believe that parents role in children behavior plays a crucial role. Most of the teenagers started to take cocaine or alcohol because of their family disputes. Family environment is required in flourishing right attitude and optimism in children.
    http://www.edrugrehabs.com/

  10. Pam writes:

    Found pot and a pipe - bought and read some books regarding teenagers - she was away at the time - at first I was pissed but hard to stay that way when I used at her age and more - — but my parents were mia, actually move to mexico when i was in high school…
    not too sure how stern to be with her - thinking we will be rather lax… supervising her social / school life and not really trying to punish her - ….any thoughts?

  11. linc writes:

    It really depends on the situation. regularly smoking? Where at? If he was at our home or the home of someone else, i would ask him to respect us enough to not endanger us with potential law issues. If he was out in public, I would ask him to respect himself enough to be careful.
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    Linc

    alcoholism treatment

  12. Patricia writes:

    We’re betting it wouldn’t be in their rooms in the first place because we monitor rooms pretty closely, and they know this.  But if found somewhere else on our property we would immediately find out how they acquired it since they are both under age and cannot acquire it legally.  This situation would be vigorously pursued.

  13. AlexM writes:

    Your blog is interesting!

    Keep up the good work!

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